It's Time to Grow Up

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We all know that there’s more to maturity than simply growing older. So what characteristics do you need to become a mature person? And why will that help you lead a better life? UCLA Medical School psychiatrist Dr. Stephen Marmer explains.
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Script:
We all know it takes a long time to grow up - not only biologically, but psychologically. There's a saying among psychiatrists that it takes 50 years to overcome the first 20.
Here's the good news: unlike other species, we are not restrained by our instincts alone. We are able to learn from our parents, our experiences and our culture.
Here's the bad news: Nobody matures without effort. It doesn't happen naturally. It takes a lot of hard work.
But what does it mean to be "mature?" Good question. So, let's answer it.
I have identified five characteristics of maturity. If you work to possess them all, you will have a happier, deeper, and more productive life.
One: Taking Control
Of course, you had no choice what era you were born in, or where you were born, or who your parents are. But with each year of childhood you attain more and more capacity to chart your own course. Yes, society and fate play a role, but cultivating your ability and willingness to make your own decisions, expands your ability to influence how your life unfolds. The only way to achieve maturity is to take charge of your life. Nothing empowers you as much as exercising that control. Refusing to act, waiting to be rescued and seeing yourself as a victim are sure signs of immaturity.
Two: Taking Responsibility.
I mean this in two ways.
The first way is simply to acknowledge that you’re responsible for what you do. If you make a mistake, acknowledge it. Don't alibi and don't blame others. This is an easy thing to say, but we all know it's very hard to do. A mature person does it. A mature person takes responsibility.
Second, is the willingness to take on obligations and fulfill them. For example, I got married and took on obligations to my wife and children. I have ethical obligations to my patients and my profession, even on days that I might not feel like it. A mature person doesn't see obligations as burdens but as something he willingly accepts and sees through to fulfillment.
Three: Containing Emotions.
I would never suggest that you should ignore your emotions, but you have to learn to contain them. Immature people lash out at their boss or their coworker if something doesn't go their way, or argue with their spouse when they come home, or turn to alcohol or drugs because of a rough day.
I often tell my patients that maturity can be measured by how much anxiety they can tolerate without acting out inappropriately against themselves or others. Mature people express their emotions in the right place, at the right time, in the right way. We are emotional beings, but we should never let go of the steering wheel; that is, we need to learn how and when to contain our emotions.
Four: Having Perspective.
An immature teenager will regard a pimple as a catastrophic eruption of Mt. Vesuvius, or will regard rejection by a girlfriend or boyfriend as the end of the world. Maturity comes from putting disappointments into perspective.
The reason we forgive a teenager's overreaction is because we understand it's probably the first time it's happened. But life's disappointments don't stop when you turn 21. Far from it. Disappointments of every variety, great and small, happen throughout life. The mature person learns from them and gets stronger each time he recovers. This kind of mature thinking is best expressed in the famous advice given to King Solomon: This too shall pass.
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huehuemaster666
huehuemaster666 Өдрийн өмнө
MATOUR
incarnateTheGreat
incarnateTheGreat 2 өдрийн өмнө
Why are people even downvoting this? This is a brilliant set of methods to improving oneself. Are they not okay with growing up?
Roo H
Roo H 2 өдрийн өмнө
"Maturity" is pronounced "ma-chur-itee" not "ma-tour-itee"
Jewnisee Godsgrace
Jewnisee Godsgrace 4 өдрийн өмнө
You're crazy if you think this guy should still have his license....
Markerz
Markerz 4 өдрийн өмнө
A psychiatrist, telling someone to CONTAIN their emotions is one of thee worst possible things you could ever advise to any person. That is literally coping 101. You should NEVER do that. MAYBE in a professional setting where you dont have much of a choice, and even then, that is still toxic to your own mental health. As a mature person, you are supposed to CONTROL your emotions, or at the very least, control your actions that follow afterwords, not bottle them up as if they aren't happening. Recognizing that you are feeling a certain way, accepting it, and taking steps to minimize the severity of what might come as a result is what a mature person does. Even if you recognize your emotions but chose to contain them, often warrants for some very dishonest communication skills. They do something to help them relax, they write, they COPE with the problem, they talk about it. They don't ignore them, or bottle them up, or however you would like to put it and then explode as a result. When you are faced with a difficult situation that is centered around gauging your emotions properly when responding to someone or something, containing your emotions can be very dangerous because you are not doing anything to minimize it internally, and thus conditioning yourself to ignore them. This guy is SEVERELY out of touch and needs his licence revoked. Its no wonder he has a 1.9/5 rating. Good lord what a mess.
Jewnisee Godsgrace
Jewnisee Godsgrace 4 өдрийн өмнө
This is why Christianity is inherently right wing. God directly commands us subvert institutions when we grow up. If the government legalizes something evil, does that mean that you should do it?
Sean Cataldo
Sean Cataldo 6 өдрийн өмнө
your medical license should be removed
des2018
des2018 7 өдрийн өмнө
anyone get stuck on the 1st step. Shit🤣
Caleb Wagner
Caleb Wagner 7 өдрийн өмнө
Just cause he’s got a 2 star rating doesn’t mean he’s wrong
I have no name
I have no name 10 өдрийн өмнө
You guys should read his reviews
Grateful 2019
Grateful 2019 10 өдрийн өмнө
I used to be far left. But then realized I didn’t know why. I did some research and now I am conservative based on facts.
MyLittleDashie 7
MyLittleDashie 7 19 цагийн өмнө
I sincerely hope this is not one of the channel's that gave you the "facts" that made you a conservative. I wholeheartedly believe there are legitimate reasons to be right wing (though for the life of me I've yet to see them), but this channel is one of the most horrendously biased sources of misrepresented shite I've ever come across. It's most clear in their various climate change videos where they all but outright lie, leaving out crucial information to trick the viewer onto their side (because they are literally funded by fracking billionaires, the Wilks Brothers, and so have a financial interest in pretending climate change isn't a problem), but those are far from the only ones. Please, I'm begging you, even if you want to be a conservative, do not take this channel at it's word. It's nothing but baseless propaganda.
GeneralChangOfDanang
GeneralChangOfDanang 11 өдрийн өмнө
I'm definitely maturing. The last time the store ran out of Fruity Pebbles cereal, I waited until I got to my car before throwing a fit.
new age delinquent
new age delinquent 12 өдрийн өмнө
This guy Is Literally a 2 star psychiatrist with HORRENDOUS written reviews.
Paul Mielcarz
Paul Mielcarz 12 өдрийн өмнө
The five main points from the video: 1. Taking control. 2. Taking responsibility. 3. Containing emotions. 4. Having perspective. 5. Achieving deep understanding.
sup king
sup king 13 өдрийн өмнө
Ouch but fine
William Kievit
William Kievit 13 өдрийн өмнө
We have a president that calls people names like a child. He should watch this because he already blames others and said he doesn't take responsibility. He even paid for an abortion to avoid taking responsibility. Plus he has Twitter tantrums.
WA - SUP
WA - SUP 15 өдрийн өмнө
Taking responsibility, obtaining understanding, taking control (of your own destiny), containing emotions, and having perspective. A certain group of protestors and another group of rioters lack all of the mentioned traits.
Natalie Cai
Natalie Cai 15 өдрийн өмнө
RICH LIVES MATTER!
Poop Eater
Poop Eater 16 өдрийн өмнө
Is it with a "ch" sound or "t"? I been using the "ch"sound😐
Surya Yanamandra
Surya Yanamandra 17 өдрийн өмнө
I'm immature for sure.... Gotta change that
rubisanto
rubisanto 18 өдрийн өмнө
super
henk koopmans
henk koopmans 19 өдрийн өмнө
Where is that responsibility by the police when a person in custody dies? Or is that just the risk of getting a death sentence for every crime and victimizing?
Valentines Mind
Valentines Mind 20 өдрийн өмнө
I feel like the faster you accept responsibility is the faster you become an adult no matter what age you are. I swear I became the most happy when I became self sufficient. There’s nothing more fulfilling then listening to your self and supporting yourself. I recently just did a video on the same topic pretty sure y’all will like it. Much love ❤️
Sherry Mcevers
Sherry Mcevers 21 өдрийн өмнө
I love you guys!!!
APassersby
APassersby 22 өдрийн өмнө
As much as I support platforms offering view points from the other side and engaging in civil discussion - Prager, I don't need Walmart brand Peterson telling me to make my bed and clean my room.
Siphonic Boot
Siphonic Boot 23 өдрийн өмнө
Wtf is ma tour
John Smith
John Smith 23 өдрийн өмнө
When you have to make videos proclaiming how mature your side is, your side isn't the mature side. Also, I love how this video goes against the agenda of PragerU! "You need to be mature and take control of your life"... by believing a god exists and deferring to His plan for you, and deferring to whatever this authority tells you morality is. Don't think for yourself.
Charles Thorndike
Charles Thorndike 23 өдрийн өмнө
PragerU: "A mature person takes responsibility." Trump: "I take no responsibility at all." Conclusion 1: PragerU says the president is immature. Conclusion 2: If you're immature you can still become president, so this video is hereby refuted.
Draco Farquhar
Draco Farquhar 24 өдрийн өмнө
Then I guess I'll just go kms
Lianna Pfister
Lianna Pfister 24 өдрийн өмнө
The way this man says “mature” really rubs me the wrong way I know he’s not incorrect but geez
SB Mang
SB Mang 24 өдрийн өмнө
This guy must be fun at parties.
Verivik
Verivik 24 өдрийн өмнө
If you're watching this video do not listen to anything this dude is saying all of this is terrifyingly wrong
Wilo Polis
Wilo Polis 24 өдрийн өмнө
As someone with both anxiety and ADHD disorders, yeah this is shockingly harmful
Ognjen Klasnja
Ognjen Klasnja 24 өдрийн өмнө
this is the worst psychology video I have ever seen, and I've seen a lot
Lost Aquarian
Lost Aquarian 24 өдрийн өмнө
They don't grow up anymore, they do something they call "adulting" It's as if it's a trait with an On/Off switch.
MalcoPolo Art
MalcoPolo Art 25 өдрийн өмнө
Ma-Tour
Regular Guy
Regular Guy 25 өдрийн өмнө
Lol the president doesn’t follow any of these points, so is Prageru calling Trump immature then.
William Beal
William Beal 25 өдрийн өмнө
who is this for? I feel like this is coded language for anyone young who isn't a fan of a status quo stance on traditional ways of operating. Insinuating some is a child or needs to grow up because their position is just emotional is a great way to discredit their opinion while you present yours as facts and logic. political groups can always both be emotional and logical in their arguments
L Collier
L Collier 25 өдрийн өмнө
Billionares: people should stop lobbying to get paid a decent wage/ wanting healthcare and just be MATOOR
Nobody
Nobody 25 өдрийн өмнө
PragerU: Okay so it’d look bad to use Jordan Peterson again. Who can we get/ pay to say basically the same thing but worse? Stephen Marmer: I have a 1.8 review on healthgrades. PragerU: Perfect! The only thing I see from him that’s corroborated by other psychiatrists is, "repeating back what people say to you will assist you with understanding them on a deeper level" via Carl R. Rogers "On Becoming a Person." What definitely isn’t is this minimalizing of victimhood, and how looking at yourself as a victim is a sign of immaturity. Such ideas are the calling card of victimizers who tell you the exact same thing. "Stop complaining." or "Wow you really need to grow up." or "Look what you made me do." Such phrases are only used to mask the victimizer’s poor behavior. The first step in removing yourself from unhealthy relationships (intimate lovers, or a person from their society) is admitting that you are a victim.
Wilo Polis
Wilo Polis 24 өдрийн өмнө
@Nobody Lol nice, good to meet atheists that are still respectful and all. Stay safe
Nobody
Nobody 24 өдрийн өмнө
@Wilo Polis As an atheist I'm in total agreement. Hahah! Though I'm more against PragerU than I am against JP. I at least believe JP believes the things he says. PragerU will just outright lie or not tell the whole truth.
Wilo Polis
Wilo Polis 24 өдрийн өмнө
@Nobody Yeah, although I will say, as a Christian I do find it irritating when religion is weaponized to justify political ideologies, like what JP or PragerU does.
Nobody
Nobody 24 өдрийн өмнө
@Wilo Polis I don't disagree. Most of my disagreements come up with him when he attempts to speak outside of his wheelhouse. Like saying non-religious regimes lead to mass genocide, or bill C-16 in Canada forces people to use the proper pronouns. In the realm of psychology/ psychoanalysis, I've yet to see something that I outright disagree with aside from his, "people can't get over bad habits like drug use without the use of psychadelic drugs to have a supernatural experience" and " we wouldn't have any art without religion." that came from his debate with Matt Dillahunty. Those are admittedly abridged versions of JPs arguments though.
Wilo Polis
Wilo Polis 24 өдрийн өмнө
Also yes I agree, and all feelings and emotions are 100% valid and should always be attended to, instead of just being disregarded and forced to be shoved deeper down.
MDJ 123
MDJ 123 26 өдрийн өмнө
Taking responsibility? These are Trump supporters! Trump takes responsibility for nothing!
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 26 өдрийн өмнө
Never thought I'd see a UCLA Prof - especially a Psych prof - on PragerU. That said, I never thought I'd see a man insist he's a woman, but, these days...
Snake Man448
Snake Man448 27 өдрийн өмнө
The focus of this video was about making the right wing fans feel validated, and whether these are actually signs of maturity was irrelevant.
EYTPS
EYTPS 27 өдрийн өмнө
Matoor
Gandhiman
Gandhiman 27 өдрийн өмнө
The amount of likes on this video speaks volumes of the people who unironically watch these videos.
DoodleZoo
DoodleZoo 27 өдрийн өмнө
This seems like it’s aimed at Donald Trump
Sandy Carr
Sandy Carr 27 өдрийн өмнө
Where do they find these morons?
L Collier
L Collier 27 өдрийн өмнө
mnpost.info/zone/id_YmNe4bNd1oX4/video
satanicglobalistilluminati
satanicglobalistilluminati 27 өдрийн өмнө
this man should have his licence revokes this is disgusting.
Sunquad
Sunquad 27 өдрийн өмнө
Am i the only one that is pullled out of it by the way he pronounces Mature (Ma-Chur) vs. (Ma-Toir)
Thebes342
Thebes342 27 өдрийн өмнө
Maybe this video would hold more ground if it wasn't explained by a 1 star therapist who gets called a scam artist in most of his reviews...
khornetto
khornetto 27 өдрийн өмнө
So takes 50 years to say "matoor"?
schmiddes Werban
schmiddes Werban 27 өдрийн өмнө
Taking responsibility as in not advertising yourself as something you are not? Looking at you Prager "university"? Also not doing stuff is immatute and protesting is immatute. Well nice way to say "on your back and take it in the ass". Another sad propaganda video with little to no substance.
Lal Rez
Lal Rez 28 өдрийн өмнө
If u got trauma ur immature according to this guy
FalconV7000
FalconV7000 28 өдрийн өмнө
*Cough* mnpost.info/zone/id_YmNe4bNd1oX4/video *Cough*
• Victoria •
• Victoria • 28 өдрийн өмнө
WHERES THE EDA QUOTE
SteelWolfSentinel
SteelWolfSentinel 28 өдрийн өмнө
PragerU: "A mature person takes responsibility." Trump: "I take no responsibility at all." Conclusion 1: PragerU says the president is immature. Conclusion 2: If you're immature you can still become president
sinnerandprejudice
sinnerandprejudice 25 өдрийн өмнө
@EliasN0 He is a very good actor. Sometimes, I can't tell the differences.
sinnerandprejudice
sinnerandprejudice 25 өдрийн өмнө
@EliasN0 sending 200k people to heaven early, scared Mattis shitless because of fear of North Korean nuclear threat, making incomplete walls here and there as a remembrance of 2020, completely failed at the racial tension (I meant he is so good at bullying why didn't he bully those damn pesky liberal governors into his biddings). So on and so forth.
Wholesome
Wholesome 27 өдрийн өмнө
EliasN0 acting lol
EliasN0
EliasN0 27 өдрийн өмнө
@Cool Dude wouldn't you rather have a president that gets stuff done than spends his time acting stupid to piss people off lol.
Luke Newton
Luke Newton 28 өдрийн өмнө
Hi, I only just started my psych course recently and I can assure you that you shouldn't be a psychologist. The amount of victim blame in this is horrific and according to reviews I have read, this isn't just in this video.
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 26 өдрийн өмнө
@kyol I'm sorry, but you'll need to explain that to me in smaller words, because I honestly have no clue what you are suggesting I do. Regardless, I'm only commenting on what I observed here. If he said something else elsewhere, I honestly don't care because I'm commenting on his words in this video, not his larger body of work.
kyol
kyol 26 өдрийн өмнө
@Grant Johnson get a google picture then try again
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 26 өдрийн өмнө
Where's the "victim blame"? He's not saying "bad stuff that happens to you is your fault"... he's saying "yes, bad things will happen, but YOU get to choose what to do about them". That's not victim blaming, that's victim *empowerment* ... BIG difference.
Ratatosk
Ratatosk 28 өдрийн өмнө
If you never expect anything, you’ll never be disappointed
Griever Dreed
Griever Dreed 28 өдрийн өмнө
Martin Luther King should have just been more mature. What was he complaining about?
Griever Dreed
Griever Dreed 11 өдрийн өмнө
@Danny ironically, this comment you just left is extremely boring
Griever Dreed
Griever Dreed 22 өдрийн өмнө
@APassersby did I say anything about leftist or politics? No need to inject politics into this.
APassersby
APassersby 22 өдрийн өмнө
MLK would not support the race baiting Left.
mosquitoe4
mosquitoe4 28 өдрийн өмнө
Ah yes Wage Slaves, be content with being wage slaves. Please ignore the Debt Clock, it's distracting you from being productive.
AntiSocial Humanist
AntiSocial Humanist 28 өдрийн өмнө
Funny how jesus was a hippie socialist and the religious right are authoritarian capitalist. Smh. They call everything they don't like communism, socialist or marxists when the truth is they can't define any of those. They've never read karl marx and likely never read anything including the bible I've read the bible twice from start to finish. The Koran, Torah aims bhagivad gita. That's more than 90 percent of the entire religious right
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 25 өдрийн өмнө
@Wholesome You know, it's funny. The corporations that people complain so much about tend to be the ones that are publicly traded - ultimately owned by a collective of people. Meanwhile, those that are privately owned tend to behave (from what I've observed) much more decently. My father worked for a private, family-owned international manufacturing company. Non-unionized shops, all of them; not because of the company, but because the workers didn't want the unions there - ever. They tried several times and got shown the door every time. Why? Because the company treated the workers well: good wages and benefits, and even an option for profit-sharing. *That* is how capitalism is supposed to run, my friend. But trying to *force* everyone to do something similar is just slavery. Meanwhile, I have a simple objection to government running medical care; and it's the same argument I use against government running almost anything. Under capitalism, if the provider of a good or service (even an essential one) is doing a poor job of it, you can find another provider. And if you cannot find any good providers, you still have the option to appeal to the government. But if government controls it, what alternative provider will there be for you to switch to? And to whom would you be able to appeal? The government, I suppose... you could appeal to the courts! (hahaha!) Realistically speaking, admit it: you would be left with no redress whatsoever. My friend, I think you put entirely too much trust in the government. I would sooner trust a random stranger on the street with my children for a week than trust the government to do what you claim it would be able to do. The government already can't do what it's already promised to do, what makes you think it's capable of handling even bigger promises? Government has its place. I trust our federal government to defend our borders and overseas interests, keep internal peace, and maintain our public infrastructure - federal roads, bridges, ports, national parks, etc. Those few things, it is capable of doing better than anyone else. Everything else should be left, as the 10th Amendment says, "to the States respectively, or to the people." And most of what remains should be left to the people - including education and health care.
Wholesome
Wholesome 26 өдрийн өмнө
@Grant Johnson Okay, well I cant argue with you on that, its bad optics on my end. My bad. My thoughts on capitalism though, I believe that you are mistaken on the way that you define socialism. Sure there have been systems in the past where ALL of the means of production have ben seized by the government, but what I would like would and what a lot of peers of mine would like would be a system in which workers own the means of their own production when it comes to business, so no private ownership of a company only. You are free to buy your own things from houses to toothbrushes and privately own those things. Certain services like medical care however would be controlled by the government. The goal is to try and decentralize the way power is distributed in a system so that power doesn't become super concentrated because that leads to things like violent retribution when the stratification gets too high. Capitalism did this to Feudalism and changed over time to meet the needs of the people and now I believe that while it can still become better, a well designed socialist system would be even greater. One day still a new system might replace socialism maybe when automation gets so good that the need for many people to work goes away. Who knows, but it doesn't hurt to imagine.
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 26 өдрийн өмнө
@Wholesome Let's take that verse in context, shall we? Matthew 19:16-26 Now behold, one came and said to Him, “Good Teacher, what good thing shall I do that I may have eternal life?” So He said to him, “Why do you call Me good? No one is good but One, that is, God. But if you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.” He said to Him, “Which ones?” Jesus said, “‘You shall not murder,’ ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ ‘You shall not steal,’ ‘You shall not bear false witness,’ ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” The young man said to Him, “All these things I have kept from my youth. What do I still lack?” Jesus said to him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.” But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions. When His disciples heard it, they were greatly astonished, saying, “Who then can be saved?” But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Neither Jesus nor His father ever said owning personal property in general was wrong - if it was, why were there so many laws protecting personal property in the Torah? But being *greedy* about one's wealth is. And Jesus knew that *that* young man's wealth was holding him back from doing much good. But I ask you: how could that young man have *had* money to give away if he hadn't first earned (or inherited) that money? How much good would that young man's wealth do for the poor if he had no wealth to give to begin with? Capitalism isn't about making money "by any means necessary". It's simply one way to produce and distribute goods and services - and a generally effective one at that. Is it perfect? Of course not. It's an imperfect system in a broken world with limited resources inhabited by sinful people operating on limited time. But capitalism has a far better track record at reducing and eliminating poverty than *any* other economic system. (And don't try to cite the Amish - they are capitalist, too.) Socialism (government-run economy), on the other hand, doesn't produce wealth, which people can then give to the less wealthy. It consumes it, leaving everyone except those in power impoverished. I still don't see anything about Jesus supporting socialism any more than I see Jesus castigating capitalism. Try again.
Wholesome
Wholesome 26 өдрийн өмнө
@Grant Johnson Mathew 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God." Jesus doesnt want people to worship wealth which is what Capitalism is all about, making money by any means necessary. Wealth is power and if you dont get it someone else will. Things like tripple bottom lines are just ways to escape criticism and prolong the sale of ones product or service. Oh lets not forget that workers are extremely expendable even though, you know they are people. Its so hard to get even Socail democracy its insane. Even though that works within the bounds of capitalism, because it would tax the rich too much. Edit: its more of an inference than anything. Im not religious and I imagine that there are other economic models beyond capitalsim and socailism that have yet to be imagined.
Grant Johnson
Grant Johnson 26 өдрийн өмнө
Please explain how Jesus was a "hippie socialist".
AntiSocial Humanist
AntiSocial Humanist 28 өдрийн өмнө
Talk about being a hypocrite. These are the same people that worship Donald Trump. A man who has never taken responsibility for his actions. The religious right is morally bankrupt. I'll never sit back and allow these people to play the family values and morally superior card. Conservative Christian's have destroyed this country. They poison society with their ignorance and intolerance. I am ashamed of this country. I can't even speak to my own family members because of how horrible they've acted since 2016. Shame on all of you. You'll be remembered for all of this and we will never let you live this all down. You people are nothing but traitors to democracy
Paul Mielcarz
Paul Mielcarz 12 өдрийн өмнө
"Obvious troll is obvious." Just look at his nick: "antisocial humanist". WTF is that oxymoron? That's a contradiction because he has a total leftist MESS in his head.
Robert Williams
Robert Williams 13 өдрийн өмнө
Relax Karen....it will be okay. Remember, Trump was a Democrat for 50 years and you all loved him. Only a Dem argues over a “Maturity video” and Blames the President for all their problems! Lol. You don’t talk to your own family over political views? I think that’s self-explanatory. See the video says you’re supposed to grow up and not cry when you don’t get a cookie, or if you disagree with someone still love and respect them. I think you need therapy. I’ll say a prayer for you tonight Karen. This too shall pass. Hopefully on November 4th.....
Luke Liebert
Luke Liebert 13 өдрийн өмнө
I personally believe that you have it backwards. The Left wants to destroy this country and democracy itself in the pursuit of power. They want to destroy the nuclear family unit, they want to destroy private healthcare, and they want to destroy private education in the pursuit of creating total dependence on the federal government (Power!!). As for intolerance, there is no greater intolerant force than the left. The left will curse, berate, cancel, and destroy the lives of anyone who disagrees with their agenda. People are afraid to exercise their first amendment right for fear of bodily, financial, or emotional harm. The right isn’t perfect, but they’re getting better. They allow people to express their own beliefs!!!!! People aren’t perfect, but the left wants to destroy our freedom and democracy. This is the greatest country on earth and that is a fact. It was founded on the idea that people have individual rights and the federal government is only there to protect said rights. No other country was created on these ideals. I don’t believe the right’s goal is to betray democracy, I believe it’s to protect it, from the government. Thank you and have a good day
BenJiii
BenJiii 28 өдрийн өмнө
How does this guy have his license still? But then again, it's PragerU, a bunch of shills. The biggest red flag should be "How much anxiety they can tolerate without acting out inappropriately." wtf does that mean? Lmao. Conservatives are always making vague assumptions. Oh golly gee, I'm sorry make "inapproriate anxiety" gets in the way. It's not like there's bad shit going on.
Harrison Scott
Harrison Scott 28 өдрийн өмнө
PragerU: "Stop pretending you're always the victim." Also PragerU: "SAYING HAPPY HOLIDAYS IS LITERALLY A PERSONAL ATTACK!"
Michael Anderson
Michael Anderson 12 өдрийн өмнө
Edit: "prohibited or strongly discouraged" is a better way of stating it.
Michael Anderson
Michael Anderson 12 өдрийн өмнө
@Snake Man448 The anecdotal accounts you can find for yourself. Some elementary schools in New Jersey, Florida, and California (all states in which I have attorney friends) have prohibited the phrase. It wouldn't surprise me if other accounts of the ban have been exaggerated or entirely made up by the likes of Sean Hannity and Mark Levin, but it is, nevertheless, true as far as these specific examples go.
Snake Man448
Snake Man448 12 өдрийн өмнө
@Michael Anderson Is that actually true, or have you been duped by outrage peddlers who hypocritally want to impose Christian practices onto others?
Michael Anderson
Michael Anderson 12 өдрийн өмнө
@Snake Man448 Please. "Merry Christmas" is forbidden in public schools and insular groups of miserable victims have no other purpose in the world than to scream at people who wish it upon them. And there are dozens of anecdotes about particular companies and some government agencies banning the phrase in favor of "cultural sensitivity". (As to the private companies, this is their right---but they're still assholes for doing it.)
Snake Man448
Snake Man448 12 өдрийн өмнө
@Michael Anderson But nobody mandates it, nor is mandating it a personal attack. Christmas is still a holiday.
Comchia 430
Comchia 430 28 өдрийн өмнө
Vaush did a good rebuttal to this quack doctor, including exposing his massively ineffective practices: mnpost.info/zone/id_YmNe4bNd1oX4/video
DANK MEMES
DANK MEMES 28 өдрийн өмнө
PragerU: invites 1 star psychologist(this is true) Chuds: mmm yes facts
Charles Magnus
Charles Magnus 11 өдрийн өмнө
Spoken like an immature person.
new age delinquent
new age delinquent 12 өдрийн өмнө
@Rick Jones holding corporations accountable leads to a better climate, one person cleaning their school isn't going to save the world, forcing huge company's to go green just might.
Itlog
Itlog 14 өдрийн өмнө
@DANK MEMES Nice joke.
DANK MEMES
DANK MEMES 14 өдрийн өмнө
the best way to fight climate change is to join a local marxist/socialist/communist group and start organizing and spreading the message. the capitalist system is the single greatest threat to human existence.
NotYourAverage comment
NotYourAverage comment 14 өдрийн өмнө
That was good!
megafanflash
megafanflash 28 өдрийн өмнө
Jesus Christ Dr. Stephen is so far out of left field. He has zero clue what he's talking about. He's using all these words and descriptions incorrectly. One is not to contain, but control their emotions. No psychologist receiving their degree during the past 20 years would say such a ridiculous statement.
Ben A
Ben A 26 өдрийн өмнө
Lmao look at his reviews, guy probably bought his way to being a psychiatrist
AW H
AW H 28 өдрийн өмнө
LMAO Jesus Christ, this old boomer is literally the reason why people kill themselves. "It's your fault you're depressed/have anxiety."
VBVBEB
VBVBEB 28 өдрийн өмнө
Man's really got 1.9 stars on healthgrades.com
Benjamin Kriebel
Benjamin Kriebel 28 өдрийн өмнө
If you look this dude up, he has 1.9 out of 5 stars on healthgrades.com. Sounds like he’s a pretty shitty psychiatrist. Who better to pick for a PregerU video?
RJMakdaddy
RJMakdaddy 28 өдрийн өмнө
This guy has 1.9 stars on healthgrades.com LOL
Xzavior *
Xzavior * 2 өдрийн өмнө
@zomg222 That which is true or not is hidden to actually be of perspective opinion
TVBnine
TVBnine 9 өдрийн өмнө
link pls?
xxFalconArasxx
xxFalconArasxx 26 өдрийн өмнө
@Working Prole 1.9/5.0. Not very good.
Working Prole
Working Prole 26 өдрийн өмнө
I have no acess on this side 1.9 it's that good or bad?
Davidslol
Davidslol 28 өдрийн өмнө
1.9 stars
OhWellWhatTheHell1
OhWellWhatTheHell1 28 өдрийн өмнө
muh TOOR
Max Mendiola
Max Mendiola 28 өдрийн өмнө
what if someone’s actually a victim lmao
jeordie
jeordie 28 өдрийн өмнө
Victimized by someone saying “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”.
Monstache
Monstache 28 өдрийн өмнө
1.9 Stars
Clifford Bohm
Clifford Bohm 28 өдрийн өмнө
This doctor is condescending. He mixes intuition with shoddy science and backs it up with nothing but his appearance of authority. He says "I have identified 5 characteristics of maturity..." So what? Why should I (or you) care what this guy has identified? The fact that I have identified that this guy is a condescending person should carry about as much weight. This entire presentation from the tone to the faceal expresions is about lecturing down to the audiance... he's not an equal, sharing science or even personal advice. This is not an effective way to communicate with someone... so I think this message is more for people who agree with the statements, but about others (be they kids, or some race or religion they don't like). The sad thing is, I think that there is some truth to what he says. If you believe that you can make your situation better - even if you probably can not - you are more likely to attempt to do so, and more likely to succeed. If you want to see this message delivered well, check out Neil Degrass Tison (mnpost.info/zone/f9rHn6eTZbCArJw/video). But this guy takes it so far that it becomes laughable and worse, it provides people an argument to disregard people who are different from themselves. Rather then trying to understand others, if you buy into this guys BS you can just know that they are immature. More divisive language is not what we need right now! Lastly, who is he to say that an outburst is inappropriate. We can not know someone else's condition. Maybe there is a good reason why they did what they did. To simply label them as immature is, frankly, a bad position for a doctor to take.
Big Brother
Big Brother 23 өдрийн өмнө
@Gen Meow I think the important thing is to look beyond the way the message is presented, and think more about the content. I realized that my reply to you was immature, and that I had a long way to go. As he said in the video, keeping things in perspective is important. And you helped me to understand that. Thanks.
Gen Meow
Gen Meow 23 өдрийн өмнө
Thank you for the kind reply, @Big Brother. My issue with this video, along with a lot of PragerU, is that it is someone's opinion masquerading as facts. Like you, I agree with some of what Marmer has to say. However, the way he presents it along with the silly strawmen he creates to make his points all smell like yet another old person shaking his finger at the Beatles because their hair is too long. I hope you also have a nice day.
Big Brother
Big Brother 23 өдрийн өмнө
@Gen Meow Hi! Thanks for your comment. I just believe that the ideas about maturity are good ones, that there are elements of truth in what he says. I don't know if it's complete definition, but I don't think they are lies or falsehoods. There is some good in what he says, it seems to me. Sorry to have given you such a curt, discourteous reply to your comment - it was immature of me. I hope you have a nice day. Best regards, Meow! (I take it you're a "cat person" - if so, check out the movie "when the cat's away") Ciao, Meow!
Gen Meow
Gen Meow 23 өдрийн өмнө
Especially, @Big Brother, when it isn't.
Big Brother
Big Brother 23 өдрийн өмнө
@Gen Meow the truth hurts
nk44
nk44 28 өдрийн өмнө
www.healthgrades.com/physician/dr-stephen-marmer-xk3cw nice, you guys chose a psychiatrist with a 1.9 star rating to do this episode
Armando Ocana
Armando Ocana 28 өдрийн өмнө
mnpost.info/zone/id_YmNe4bNd1oX4/video here you go brainwashed sheep. Free yourselves.
Cioda
Cioda 28 өдрийн өмнө
mnpost.info/zone/a7HAbMnRkpqLhno/video
GMG
GMG 28 өдрийн өмнө
You are you and that is all you can be
mickvk
mickvk 29 өдрийн өмнө
Bravo, that was very well done. The advice allows us all to shape our culture in a positive way.
Giordano Gronchi
Giordano Gronchi 27 өдрийн өмнө
@mickvk youre talking about accountability on a MNpost channel that deliberately manipulatws statistics and misinforms their viewers to promote a twisted ultraconservative agenda, without any repercussion. Shut up.
Cruzin
Cruzin 27 өдрийн өмнө
@mickvk the fact u think prageru advice is valuable is truly pathetic. Almost as bad as their take on God
mickvk
mickvk 27 өдрийн өмнө
@Cruzin oh okay, what do you do, bUrNs iT dOwN!!
mickvk
mickvk 27 өдрийн өмнө
@Giordano Gronchi Accountability aint yer thang? :)
Cruzin
Cruzin 28 өдрийн өмнө
Hell no
Burton K Richard
Burton K Richard Сарын өмнө
So for everyone who suffers from actual anxiety and panic attacks are immature?? Wow this MNpost channel is a joke. I’m sorry my brain process information different than yours it’s how I was designed I didn’t choose these chromosomal abnormalities. But go off sis.
Burton K Richard
Burton K Richard 4 өдрийн өмнө
@Permadeath explain further. dont be shy.
Permadeath
Permadeath 5 өдрийн өмнө
The way you react to this says a lot about you.
Jack McLean
Jack McLean 11 өдрийн өмнө
''not getting proper mental health treatment to own the libs''
IshaanBhatia10
IshaanBhatia10 23 өдрийн өмнө
Joe duffy Or you can get help clinically or from your social support system. Who told you the only options are “man up” or “curse god.” Humans are social animals. Judging from your comment you’ve been lacking that realization for a while.
Burton K Richard
Burton K Richard 24 өдрийн өмнө
Also I never mentioned god or religion so please keep that nonsense out of this convo.
nolan murray
nolan murray Сарын өмнө
Matoore
Cruzin
Cruzin 28 өдрийн өмнө
@Sahil C matoor
Sahil C
Sahil C Сарын өмнө
And you call others racist🤣
Ty Frank
Ty Frank Сарын өмнө
Without God, there's no maturity.
Cruzin
Cruzin 28 өдрийн өмнө
gods a myth
Giordano Gronchi
Giordano Gronchi 28 өдрийн өмнө
we've been living a pretty mature life without God, but tell him to stop by for a beer if he's free Saturday night
kseries1981
kseries1981 Сарын өмнө
BLM fails at all 5.
Cruzin
Cruzin 28 өдрийн өмнө
This channel and the prez fail all 5
Giordano Gronchi
Giordano Gronchi 28 өдрийн өмнө
how so
Brett Singer
Brett Singer Сарын өмнө
At the risk of sounding immature, this guy annoys the hell out of me. So does his employer, PragerU.
Brett Singer
Brett Singer 11 өдрийн өмнө
@Danny Nope. But I can also point out what a colossal fraud this MNpost channel is.
Brett Singer
Brett Singer 28 өдрийн өмнө
@A Ghost Without a Past It's pretty ballsy for a MNpost channel that devotes most of its time defending policies that are based on a lack of empathy lecturing us about what it means to be an adult.
I'm gonna pre
I'm gonna pre 28 өдрийн өмнө
@A Ghost Without a Past no matooor
A Ghost Without a Past
A Ghost Without a Past 28 өдрийн өмнө
That's a pretty mature take, honestly.
Todd Packer
Todd Packer Сарын өмнө
The way he's pronouncing mature is really pretentious
Ag silver Radio
Ag silver Radio Сарын өмнө
What about an intermidate stage of maturity: where your mature enoguh to take care-of/responsibillity-for yourself, but not really yet mature enoguh to raise a fammily?
JEF Enterprises
JEF Enterprises Сарын өмнө
Favorite for life...
Travis G
Travis G Сарын өмнө
I did try to grow up, it was called the US Army! Loaded guns in my face, punches, forced to stay awake for a whole 2 weeks with only 2 hours of sleep per night! Then they kicked me out, got a job, things were going okay, but didn't get paid good, so couldn't afford practically anything. Didn't have enough to buy a house so went from apartment to house to townhouse on leases with roomies. Then I got in bad credit situation, was scammed too, and basically it just killed most of my motivation to do practically anything. Tell that congressman's son who got a full ride to Harvard how easy it was to grow up before I get this video again. Growing up is expensive!
jeordie
jeordie 28 өдрийн өмнө
Thank you for your service, brother. It takes a lot of guts to work for the military of such a bad country. I hope you find peace in your future.
Gavin the Great
Gavin the Great Сарын өмнө
Mator lol
Bojana Mirkovic
Bojana Mirkovic Сарын өмнө
Isn’t containing emotions immature? I understand that there’s a place and time for everything, but shouldn’t people be able to stand up for themselves? If you’re in an environment where you’re being mistreated, you owe it to yourself to let others know you have rights, you cannot allow people to think they can mess with you just for the sake of being “in control of your emotions”. A mature thing to do would be to voice your issues.
osp80
osp80 Сарын өмнө
so does this apply for 47 year olds who burned nike shoes and smashed keurig machines over songs and not advertising on a tv show they liked?
JTassassins
JTassassins Сарын өмнө
"You need to understand why they believe what they believe" The hypocrisy is outstanding 🤦🏿‍♀️
Neon Witch
Neon Witch Сарын өмнө
a matoor person will realize how this whole video is conservative crap and victim blaming. just because someone is in a suit doesn't mean what they are saying is right, pathetic
trax72
trax72 Сарын өмнө
"MATOOR". LOL, can't even pronounce a simple word.
Renegade 3211
Renegade 3211 Сарын өмнө
Vaush bad!!! Vaush ba,d!! Vaush bad!!!
Dusty Miller
Dusty Miller Сарын өмнө
*Conservatives when someone says Happy Holidays:* NOOOO YOU MUST SAY MERRY CHRISTMAS REEE *Conservatives when minorities want equality:* Idk bro just grow up lol
BadgerXP
BadgerXP 28 өдрийн өмнө
Bootstraps logic at it's finest. PragerU is a joke.
JTassassins
JTassassins Сарын өмнө
😂😂😂😂😂
Bricks
Bricks Сарын өмнө
If you want to know how credible he is, look at his medical reviews. A hack
A Ghost Without a Past
A Ghost Without a Past 28 өдрийн өмнө
Gotta keep the propaganda machine running somehow, who needs consistency when every overglorified hack with a degree on mopping knows better?
Da great Eisenburg
Da great Eisenburg Сарын өмнө
Bricks I see you come from vaush’s stream. hello comrade
Bricks
Bricks Сарын өмнө
Isn't it weird that this ready reputable news source picked a man who's been sued multiple times and has a 1 star rating? Why would that be the case?
Bricks
Bricks Сарын өмнө
"What I learned is family and Friends seeking assistance dr. Marmer provides zero evaluations and allows unqualified incompetent persons to manage his clients care. Dr. Marmer would write refills without ever evaluating his patient and take the advice of an interventionist to increase the dosage. Dr. Marmer went to trial but due to inefficient efforts of attorneys leaving out evidence the case was dropped not due to lack of negligence but due to lack of proper trial etiquette. Other trial we learn mr. Warren Boyd has psychiatrist on his payroll she prescribed to his clients without face-to-face evaluations or drug testing. "
Bricks
Bricks Сарын өмнө
Highlights: Dr. Marmer treated our son for bipolar disorder but did very little to evaluate him and even nodded off twice during their sessions. Marmer prescribed a high dose of an antidepressant w/very low dose mood stablizer which sent our son into a constant mixed state of rapid cycling.
JT
JT Сарын өмнө
This shit is so cringe. thanks for the laugh.
grimmbros1214 !
grimmbros1214 ! Сарын өмнө
MATOOR
Isfahan Ismail
Isfahan Ismail Сарын өмнө
We all must grow MATURE enough to pronounce MATURE correctly😲🤦‍♂️
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